Lingam Massage
Lingam Massage is the sanskrit word for Penis or wand of light, creative energy, for the man.
If you would like to massage your boyfriend, lover, partner or husband, you may follow similar procedures as the female yoni massage, using unscented massage plain oil, Almond or olive oil as they usually do not cause irritation, do not use anything synthetic, as some people can be allergic to it especially in the most intimate parts.
I would start with a back or full body massage, depending how much time you have to explore! I always say tantric ideally should not have a clock on it, as it spoils the free flow of energy shared, of course choosing a time where you both have time to relax and explore, as rushing would spoil it!
Set a nice romantic setting, candles whispiring lights in the background, low soft lighting, ambient soft relaxing or new age music in the backgriund to set the mood. Big soft towels to lie on whether its the futon or a soft bed, you both want to be
comfortable and warm enough. After massaging the back of his body, you ask him to turn over, to his front, massaging the chest, stomach, legs, inner thighs, using sweeping long or shorter strokes, use swirling soft tactile movements.
use diffrent strokes and watch the responce back, and use your intution to massage scrotum, perineum, buttocks, then his wand, penis, or known as Lingam massage.
The lingam has alot of sensitivity, nerve endings, and chakras, so take your time to unfold, using various types of very loving tactile touch, massaging in efflerage these are swedish types of massage techniques, esalen, caressing, fingertips, light feathery strokes, massaging the testes at the same time as his lingam, builds the energy very well, use eye contact, to affirm your intention and it is also more sensual, to look at each others eyes, as mechanical is not what you want!
yes take your time, as it builds up, you can massage the top part of the lingam, yes the lingam has a very sensitive part, just below, where the foreskin begins, rub very gently or increase, but not too firm, depending on individual man, adapt it by watching his face and expressions! is a great indicator if your touching well! – use loving touch, ….eventually as it gets a little close to orgasm, ask him for guidance incase your not sure, as you slow down, use the breathing techniques to slow him down , repeat several times, if the energy lends itself!- if you try to over do this part, it takes time to learn it, and understand your own personal timing with it, so go at finding your own natural pace! at some point you will reach the point of a tantric orgasm!
